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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/MedusaMelly on 2023-09-25 16:42:29.

We’ve been hanging out for a few months at this point. Both staying single by choice but we have become fast friends.

We dropped acid at a festival last weekend and danced all night, then back at camp we decided to ‘crawl inside each others skin’ as he puts it. 😹 (if you know, you know)

Out of the blue, mid-deed, he asked me how he is in bed. Which is odd for him to request such a personal critique. It was definitely the drugs because I was just honest as hell with no hesitation. I told him I noticed that he noticed I was becoming less interested in sex with him already. I explained that we were at a 1 to 4 ratio for me achieving orgasm but the fact that he never had that problem was a problem.

He got really quiet and almost…. whined? “I knooooww” and he flopped down on his back and stared at the ceiling. I could tell it wasn’t the first time he had heard of this problem! internal sarcastic gasp

I told him he needs to start at foreplay and take it slow, and take the phrase ‘she comes first’ to heart and prioritize my experience if he wants to motivate me to be interested again. I then told him another date I recently went on was 9/1 ratio for orgasms and I was the nine. His eyebrows went pretty far up his head at that.

Well, he got brave, ladies. He gave it another shot and Hottie McHotStuff did it. Everyone was happy and the mission was a success! When he said he was trying to improve as a human being he wasn’t kidding. 👏🏻 So proud of him for not giving up and I told him so. It’s so fabulous when a human just does better to show he cares, is present and listening!