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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Exciting_Tomorrow480 on 2023-09-22 17:45:55.
I am a single mom to 4 kids aged 28, 22, 18 and 17.
My oldest got a girl pregnant when he was 18 which resulted in a child(F10)
I’m not going to go into details about our relationship however I kust say that my son was nc with me for the last 10 years because I chose not to support his decision to keep the baby and run his own life. He was a very smart boy who was going to become a lawyer but now he is just a chef because he couldn’t go to college.
We tried to fix our relationship a few months ago I met the kid for the first time and she was extremely rude and spoiled, I didn’t approve of his parenting which resulted in him going NC again however it turns out I have been supporting him al along.
You see my youngest kids still lived at home and I financially supported them so they could focus on their studies but for some unknown reason they insisted on having part time jobs.
Now I know why, they have been giving most of their money to my oldest.
My oldest has a job and can take care of himself and his daughter but my younger kids have been spoiling her by giving her unnecessary things like new phones or helping him put her in a better school.
When I found out I was fuming and told them I’m done supporting them. They went behind my back and used me for my money. This resulted in a fight and my 22 and 18 yo moved in with my oldest.
Am I wrong for not wanting to keep supporting them when they used me like that?