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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/48485838 on 2023-09-21 17:27:52.

(EDIT: I messed up on the caption think of it as AITA for not accepting they’re apology) AITA for not wanting to hear my family’s apology? I (16F) have struggled with a lot of health issues since I was a kid as a baby I was two months early then when I was two years old I got diagnosed with stage 3 leukemia, I had a very low chance of survival but thankfully I made it. As I was growing up my grandma (dads mom) was the one who took care of me, up until I was 10 then my uncle took me, through ages 3-15 I couldn’t swallow anything and I would choke on everything but my uncle and my grandma always told me to “just swallow it” and told people I was doing it for attention or bcecause I didn’t like my food. When I was 13 I moved in with my mom but at that point in time we didn’t think anything was wrong because that’s what my grandma had told me my whole life up until a year ago we started going back to children’s to see what was really going on and found out I’m suffering from heart failure, and I have such a narrowed esophagus that it is smaller than a newborns. I’ve been through 6 procedures in the last four months and I’m so tired and I know this could’ve been done and over with when I was a kid if they would’ve just taken me to the doctor like they were supposed to I couldn’t swallow anything other than liquid for a year up until a couple weeks ago. But now my dads side of the family is wanting me to forgive them because my dad isn’t here anymore and they “feel bad for what they did” but won’t even admit to what they did. AITA? (Edit: now I’m also only 80 pounds as a 16 year old and have to drink 4 nutrient shakes daily so I can try and get to a normal weight while going through one surgery every two weeks) I now currently live with my mom that’s why it’s getting taken care of