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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/little_dragon090 on 2023-09-18 16:03:39.
I was at my boyfriend’s house alone because he had to go pick something up quickly. He didn’t mention he was expecting anyone so when his friends turned up, I was caught off guard. I explained to them that my boyfriend wasn’t home and that they could come back later but they wanted to wait inside for him. I’ve known my boyfriend for a long time but we’ve only been dating for a month so I haven’t met all of his friends yet and I felt uncomfortable letting them in while he wasn’t home.
So, I told them I couldn’t let them in and they would have to come back. They asked me if I was serious and I told them yes and quickly shut the door because I didn’t want to argue with them.
My boyfriend came back 20 minutes later and let them come inside since they were sitting outside in their cars. To say it was awkward would be an understatement. His friends kept joking about how I was like a frightened mouse and that I was acting like they were going to eat me.
One of his friends is also his cousin and while I’ve seen him around my boyfriend, he’s only ever said two words to me before. He was the most visibly annoyed that I had made them wait outside. I did apologise but he kept asking me what I thought they would do to me and he wouldn’t drop it even after my boyfriend told him to shut up and leave me alone.
My boyfriend ended up kicking them out but even he thinks I should’ve let them in since I knew they were his friends.
AITA?