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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/PabloGEscobar on 2023-09-18 14:17:47.
With the start of this month my GF and I moved back to my childhood home for a few months and since nobody lived in my old room for quite a while it was very cluttered. So a few weeks before we moved in I went to my old room with my dad to get rid of old stuff I didn’t need anymore like old clothes and just any other junk I found in there.
In the meantime my family put some of my sisters clothes in the closets as well as other stuff I wasn’t entirely sure whose they were. So while I’m there cleaning and throwing stuff away I see a woman’s shirt and a jacket in one of the closets. I take a picture and send it to my GF and ask her if they are hers.
She responds: No they are your ex’s.
Me: Very funny, but wrong.
At this point I put my phone back in my pocket throw the clothes away and continue clearing out the room.
Next time I look at my phone I see that my GF shortly after my last message wrote: ‘‘They are mine yes.’’
Now at this point the trash bag with her clothes along side at least 5 other trash bags are in the public bin so I didn’t feel like going picking through trash trying to find them and left them there. My GF has been unhappy about this since it happened mentioning a few times that I should buy her a new one but I really don’t think that’s fair since I feel like it’s almost entirely her fault for them being thrown out because of her joking with me in not the best moment.
Today she sent me a picture of the same/similar jacket from a store and asked if she can use my money to buy it. I responded that I am willing to pay for half of it to which she responded:‘’ I already paid for it once before.‘’
AITA for throwing away the jacket and not wanting to buy a new one?