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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/RevolutionaryGuess27 on 2023-09-18 01:27:14.

Let me explain myself a little bit. My girlfiend (18F) and I (19M) have been together for a year and a half. We are currently living at my father’s place.

I’m still in school and I work a lot (about 30 hours a week). My girlfriend quit school a while ago and doesn’t have a job. So I’ve been “providing” for the both of us and even though I would never admit it to her, it’s extremely hard and I am exhausted all the time. I try to tell her in the nicest way I could, that she could maybe start looking for a job to help me a little but everytime I bring it up she gets pissed off. She keeps telling me that she does a lot of chores in the house and it takes a lot of her time, but everytime I come home I find dirty dishes in the sink and piles of clothes next to the washing machine that needs to be clean and I end up doing all of it…

Anyway, recently she suffered an appendicitis and had to be hospitalized for 3 days. While the doctor was giving us an update, he asked her the reason she had stopped renewing her contraceptive pill 1 month ago. She turned red and kept looking away from me. She started stuttering and finally asked me to go and get her water.

When we got home, I was extremely pissed off because she always told me that I didn’t need to wear a condom because she was taking the pill. The reason I got so pissed off is because I don’t want to bring a baby into this world without knowing confidently that I can provide for him/her. Also, we are still so young, I’m still in school, and to be quite honest, I’m not ready to have a baby. She tried to explain herself by saying that she is home alone all day and that she tought that having a baby would give her a sort of purpose. So, now she has been crying for 2 days straight because of how mad I got (I just want to specify that I was only screaming, I would NEVER be physical with her).

I just want to know AITA for the way I reacted? Should I have just let it go?