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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Impressive-Switch838 on 2023-09-17 02:30:31.


Throw away account. I went to go pick up bowels my sil had borrowed from my wife and when I went inside, sil and her wife asked me if I could father a baby with her, so that they could experience motherhood. I was taken aback, and then they said that they can’t afford IVF, so it will have to be done naturally. Ngl if I was younger and had no wife, it would have been a definite yes, but I want to have children with my wife and only my wife. Sil, wife realized I wasn’t taking it to well and she apologized for springing it on me so suddenly. I asked why me? Sil said she’s known me all my life and she knows my background and that I’m healthy. I said no. Sil wife said that’s okay, but my sil got upset and accused me off being homophobic and other nasty things that I don’t care to repeat. Her wife had to take her out the room and I left.

My wife wasn’t home when I got back. I had to block my sil because she was just sending nasty texts and voice mails. When my wife got back, she asked what happened, that sil been sending her messages and calling me a homophobic. I told my wife what happened and she went nuclear on her sister. Long story short, they want nothing to do with each other. FIL and MIL said I should have just kept it to myself to save all this trouble and there family split apart because I couldn’t keep my mouth shut! AITA?