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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Acceptable_Smoke3597 on 2023-09-16 05:28:16.
My (30F) chiropractor (29M) does an adjustment where he lifts up the top half of my body off of the table and lowers it on his fist as an adjustment. This can be done face down, but it doesn’t work as well. He’s said before that I just need to buy a fist to lay on at home since it gives me so much relief.
Anyways, today he told me he did that adjustment on his wife and she asked him if he does that to patients (she was not happy) and he told her only on male patients. I couldn’t tell if he was joking or not. I didn’t know what to say, so I just said he was a doctor doing his job. Maybe I should have told him to not do it?
We are somewhat close and I’ve been going for so long that at this point, he just does whatever to me. I told him I wanted dry needling on my lower back and he offered to do it on my glutes, completely serious. He’s offered it on my hips before too, typically asking more than once. So I don’t get why an adjustment where he’s holding me basically would be a problem when it’s okay for him to see my naked ass. 🤷🏼♀️ it’s all medical to me, but maybe I’m being oblivious.