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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Thin_Post_5678 on 2023-09-16 01:20:47.
I know the title seems odd, I’ll keep it short and sweet.
This morning before work, I sent a selfie of my outfit to my boyfriend. I work in an office, so I don’t dress provocatively. The outfit is a long sleeve black shirt, up to my neck (no cleavage, not even collarbone), an above-knee jean skirt, and a full-length maroon sweater.
I wore just a sports bra beneath my shirt because I have no typical bra that fits me at the moment. He said he loved it. Fast forward to the end of the workday I go home and I greet him by going in for a hug. He asks me if I am wearing nipple covers under my clothes. I told him no because I have on a sports bra.
Usually, when I wear dresses or shirts outside of work with no bra, I wear the nipple covers.
He immediately shuts down and tells me he’s disappointed in me for not wearing covers over my nipples. Apparently, when I walked in my nipples were a bit hard (haven’t been that way all day) and I didn’t make an effort to hide them as I was just getting home and ready to unwind.
He is now saying I don’t take his feelings into consideration, and it makes him feel worthless… We’ve had this conversation before for when I don’t wear any boob support, but I didn’t think I needed covers with a sports bra…
AITA?