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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/tldrroyalty on 2023-09-15 11:34:01.
21 y/o and it was my second time being intimate (no sex) with him; only have known him for about two weeks. I thought he was incredibly sweet and attentive. I went over to his place and we didn’t have sex but as we were kissing he started choking me. He was sort of easing into it, but I’ve never been choked before and I was still caught off guard. I didn’t know how to react, so I just kept going with it. I didn’t really mind it in the moment but after seeing another post about choking on this sub and reflecting on that experience I feel apprehensive. Is this something I’m supposed to watch out for? I feel so stupid sometimes for not knowing if or when certain situations are problematic. I thought I really liked him and part of me still wants to see him but now I’m not so sure what to think or do.