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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Feisty-Equivalent-92 on 2023-09-14 06:21:57.
My girlfriends dad has paid her rent for years while she is in school. We started dating and gradually I spent more time with her, and with this she started asking for rent. I refuse, as she does not pay any rent either and does not want me to leave. I can stay at my parents house rent free, but we live kinda far apart and my car gets terrible gas mileage, so it would cost a lot for me to drive back and forth on a regular basis. I would have all my expenses covered at my parents house, but I pay for my own food and other stuff because I want to be around her. Only for the past year or so she has been asking me to pay rent. She thinks I should feel bad or guilty for not paying it. But I feel nothing, see no reason why I should if she is not, especially when I can live for less at my parents house. Issue is, sometimes she gets really controlling about it. There are a lot of other issues, but I’m mostly just asking if I’m the asshole about the rent situation.