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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/ShellTrajectory on 2023-09-14 06:19:11.

So I spun up tinder while my self confidence was low. I got a super like, and we basically moved immediately to coffee in 2 days for a vibe check. We were both looking for something super short term/casual.

I felt like we were both looking forward to coffee, and we were both looking forward to hooking up, but when he was explicit about it I mentioned that I wanted him to take an STD test and that I’d be willing to take one too.

Tonight’s the night before coffee, and I was feeling a bit excited … but it looks like he unmatched me.

In the end it was just a planned hookup, so nothing emotional has really hit yet, but I’m kind of surprised? I really felt like this wasn’t a huge barrier to sex :(