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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/flght-of-concords on 2023-09-14 01:04:01.
My husband’s family is Ukrainian living in Russiaand Italy at the moment
We have invited his dad to visit us in Washington, and while during the week that he stayed with us he managed to throw a huge temper tantrum because he demanded that we apply for a Greencard for him right away. We agreed, but told him we needed to find out more about the process and how he will support his family of 5. He has 3 young kids 17, 13, 11. He was not satisfied with that and yelled at us about how we are betraying the family and not moving him to the US.
He is a wealthy business owner in Belarus and Russia, and when we asked for him to bring the family for a vacation to the states, he refused. My only condition was to meet the family and talk about moving to the US and all the financial decision involved. He has refused to come and visit us.
He is now living part time in Italy and part time in Russia and constantly berates my husband and I about how we are betraying him. This is causing me so much stress and anger that I can’t sleep for nights at a time.
I’m almost ready to just call it quits with my husband because his family is so difficult to deal with. . . I just don’t know anymore