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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/litlady09 on 2023-09-13 03:36:23.

I have been seeing a guy I met on Bumble for a few weeks. He asked me to be his gf and I said yes, as the dates have been wonderful and we have a good connection.

Last weekend I stayed at his place. He has a very high sex drive. We had a great day Saturday doing fun/romantic things and he also cooked me some lovely meals, but other than that we had a ton of sex. We didn’t use condoms, but I’ve had unprotected sex before with longterm relationship partners just pulling out and never had any scares. He knows I’m not on any BC because I don’t like how it affects my body.

While we were having sex at first he said he wanted to ejaculate inside of me and I said no. I figured it was in the heat of the moment and brushed it off. But the last time we did it, he got careless and finished inside me. Then asked if I liked it. I didn’t. I said what if I have an accident. At first he said well I’m not ready to have a child, but then he said it was just advisable for me to take plan b but didn’t seem concerned at all. I said I hated taking it and that it made me feel sick, and he then said he thinks I’d be a good mom. And was ok if I didn’t take it.

When I left I bought the plan b and texted him that I took it, just to give him peace of mind. But it was still sitting on the table. As soon as I sent that text he called me and said I wish you hadn’t done that. I don’t think I really came in you that much so you don’t need it. I said ok, I won’t take it because tbh I haven’t yet. And he seemed happy/relieved.

But later that night I decided to just take it and not tell him. I didn’t want the risk. Now I’m kind of feeling lost as to why he’d call me and ask me not to take it or why he’d finish in me after I said not to.

I don’t know what to make of this or why any man would do this. Im also wondering how I should deal with this. Im supposed to spend the night with him again tomorrow and am looking for advice on how to handle or what to say to him.