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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/XoLony on 2023-09-12 21:03:35.
Husband(31M) & I(28F) are expecting a baby in the next few weeks. This has been a rough, high risk pregnancy with lots of pain since I was 2 months along. Any time I’ve experienced pain, he’s made sure to mention how it couldn’t possibly be hurting THAT bad. I’ll be hunched over crying in pain, and he just asks if im okay. I’ve literally had to BEG for back massages to help ease the pain, and the few times im lucky enough to get one, it’s only for about 5 minutes. Today he asked how I was feeling, and I told him I was in a lot of pain. His comment was “well you looked fine this morning”. I’m sick of having such an unsupportive partner in this pregnancy, and I sure as hell don’t want him in the delivery room telling me “I’m sure it doesn’t hurt that bad”. Willing to admit I might just be hormonal rn. But would I be an asshole for not allowing him in, and instead replacing him with my mother, who I know will actually be supportive/helpful to me??