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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Difficult_League_852 on 2023-09-12 20:13:26.
Him (25M) and i (22F) has been together for two years, we got together from our jobs for an animation studio. He was the one to show me around and explain how the buisness work, we became friends quickly and then more a little bit after.
At one of our first date (i think it was the third) he ask me why i always wear long sleeves and always cover as much skin as possible. I told him the truth because i was feeling the “spark”, i straight up told him that it was because i have scars on my body and it makes people uncomfortable and it makes them ask questions i don’t want to answer to. He was marvellous, he said i could show them and tell about them when i felt like it.
Once when we were really together for some time i asked him to come with me to an appointment with my therapist. I told him about my childhood and my scars, how i was abused by my mother before getting remove, spending time in foster care and finaly settling in the family he knows. He was still accepting at this point.
Now two years in our relationship and working on myself i’ve come to accept my scars and to show them more. Since then he ask me to cover them when we go out with his friends or family, sometime even at work…it’s really hot here for the moment and when h asked me to cover myself the last time i said no because i was too hot, he got really mad. He told me it was always “something differents with you”.
Last time we were getting wilde in bed i asked him to stop because i was having a flashback from my childhood and he got really mad again. Telling me that i was lying, that mother doesn’t do sexual things to their daughter’s.
I don’t understand where all those change come from. He was always accepting before and now the more confidence i have with myself the angriest he’s becoming.