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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Beepbeepboobop1 on 2023-09-12 14:55:35.
Title. I’m so tired of it. Even when I very blatantly say that I have no interest in “Chads” (I don’t, I understand they’re conventionally attractive but they’re not MY type), men will ALWAYS tell me I’m lying and that the men I think are average are actually chads, and that women think ACTUAL average men are extremely ugly. Basically because I’m a woman I’m not smart enough to know what’s considered hot, average or ugly on a societal level (key word, societal).
Why do these men WANT to claim they’re ugly? As an easy explanation as to why they have trouble dating? I don’t get it. As someone who was considered ugly in grade school but had a moderate “glow up”, I know the difference. When you’re ugly you WILL be told so by some assholes from both genders. When you’re average people don’t go out of their way to degrade you. Most of these men aren’t ugly, they just want to blame women for all their romantic problems and the “all women think 80-90% of men are ugly!!” Card is the easiest route.