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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/SeaweedPlane4183 on 2023-09-11 19:00:16.

This was a last straw of mine so it may come off as an overreaction but it’s not.

I’ve been dealing with one of my roommate’s friends antics all summer. He was cool with me at first until I refused to give him my instagram handle. It was his way of trying to flirt with me but I didn’t feel the same way so I shut it down.

Over the course of the last two months he began:

  1. Making little “jokes” that were at my expense and started being fake. He tried calling me out in front of a group that we had over, saying I had an OF when I do not. He kept insisting that I did.
  2. One time while I was showering he wanted to use the bathroom. I told him to wait. He picked the lock on the door and I didn’t realize until I heard him peeing WHILE i was showering.
  3. He’s “jokingly” pretended that he was gonna throw me over a boat multiple times and when I was freaking out he said I’d be fine because ‘my boobs would keep me afloat’.
  4. I’ve heard him openly criticizing my art and tried pretending he didn’t know I made it.

And that is just to name a few, a lot of the other things were minor annoyances.

My final straw was when I found out he was in my room while I was gone. He mistakenly left his friend’s hat on my bed. When I saw it I threw it at him and told him to gtfo because he knows I don’t allow anyone in my room. I made it very clear that he’s no longer allowed around me and he can hang with my roommates elsewhere, and apparently that makes me the bad guy. He’s trying to gain sympathy and support from my roommates, just feels like he’s trying to be messy.

WITAH?