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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Sweetie_Sprinkle on 2023-09-11 12:01:06.
Posting for a friend.
So my friend Tyler now 29 donated spream 11 years ago well in college.
For 11 years Tyler never really thought much of the fact he could have kids out there. And went on with his life. at 29 he is now married and works full time (he is a wildlife vet)
But last week his past came back to hit him.
Tyler got contacted by the sperm bank he donated to being informed that a family who had used his sperm was looking to contact him due to medical problem with his biological daughter.
The sperm bank isn’t allow to give information out without permission. But they are allow to contact the person and explain why said family wish for contact.
As it turns out his biological daughter is in full liver failure and she need part of his liver.
Tyler agreed to donating part of his liver. He has no problem doing that.
But issue is that the parents infomed him his biological daughter has expressed interest in wanting to meet him and get to know him.
But has he made it clear he doesn’t want that.
Tyler isn’t comfortable. He and his husband are both child free. Tyler not interested in being a father in any sense of the word.
A few of our friends are calling Tyler a asshole for not wanting to meet her. They claim The girl has a right to know her biological father.
I’m personally on Tylers side. But I don’t know.
AITA for not wanting to meet thier biological daughter.