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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/XOpony on 2023-09-10 23:57:14.
My sister Bella (35f) has three kids, Ally (15f), Katy (14f), and Jasmine (5f). A year ago Bella got engaged to a man Henry (36m) with two sons, Zach (15m) and Xavier (1m).
Katy and and Ally were unhappy about this. They don’t like Zach or want to live with a baby. Since their parents got married, a few months, both girls have had to babysit Xavier and Jasmine at least once each on their own and together.
Ally is mad at Bella and makes that clear. Bella grounded Ally for being disrespectful to them the only reason Ally’s been harsh is that she’s unhappy about these people living with her. She also refuses to take a nice photo with Zach.
Katy has also expressed that she’s unhappy with them but she’s meek and does what she’s told so her mom is fine with it. Bella says they just have to get used to it. She thought I’d take her side but I told her she was selfish for bringing these boys into her daughter’s home agenst their will and she should have either not gotten married or waited until they moved out. Now Bella will not let me talk to her kids. AITA?