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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Satorugojoswifeee on 2023-09-09 18:18:25.
I (F19) was always the outcast in my family. everyone of them hated me - my older sister by 3 years and my younger brother by 1 year and an younger sister by 2 years have always hated me. My parents werent better my father always told me he doesnt like me and doesnt see me as his daugther, and my mother always said i was an accident and that i am an failure.
the only person thats been always on my side was my younger brother by 3 years, i adore him and practically raised him, sice everyone always put all their attention on my younger sister.
As soon i finished school i went to college and cut contact with my family besides the only person that was always on my side my younger brother. i would send him cards and we would call each other often.
2 Weeks ago was my 19th birthday and i and my younger brother wanted to go out and have a sister - brother day. We told nobody where we would go so nobody could ruin this day for me and him - i just told them that i was going to pick him up and bring him somewhere.
When i went to picked him up, my parents asked if they could speak ti me privatly and i agreed. They brought me into the kitchen where my other two younger siblings were and they looked like they were going out or something. When i asked waht they want, my mother asked if i could bring the both of them along with me and my brother, since it wouldnt be fair to just let the other two at home since they all are my siblings.
I looked at her in disbelif and told her “no cause they never treated me like family or a sister and that the both of them too never treated me like i am their daughter, and that the only person in this family that always was on my side was my younger brother and i am not going anywhere with these two spoiled brats.”
after that i went to the door where my brother was waiting for me and we drove off and had an fantastic day.
two days after the incident all my reletives were calling me and saying i am an asshole for not taking them with me and for how i talked to my parents.
i told them how they treated me and always excluded me from everything and that i dont need to do anything for them
So AITA for talking to my parents and siblings like that cause i kinda start to feel like i am in the wrong.