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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/throwra672723 on 2023-09-09 15:45:10.
My sister doesn’t live with us. She has her own place with her boyfriend but her child lives with us. She doesn’t like me or any other family members coming to her house cause her boyfriend lives there.
We have to take her child every day to school and other places. She is off on the weekends but even then she doesn’t come visit her child. Maybe every now and then but not too much. She may video call but that’s it. She also gets mad at us for things about her daughter. What she wears, the way her hair looks, way we feed her, etc but regardless wont come visit her child.
My mother has to do everything. My mom is sick with a bad kidney. She’s on her final stage of kidney disease. While she has that she has other few sickness like anxiety attacks, high blood pressure, swollen feet. She’s been on leave from work for months to take care of herself and goes to doctors appointments but also has to take care of her child as well as my other sisters kids sometimes.
On weekends my sisters child wants to go places like school events, the park, movies, etc. We contact her mom and she always says ok and gets her child hopes up. But ends up ghosting us and her child. So my mom has to do it last minute. The thing is my mom can’t go anywhere by herself. So she makes me go but I have other plans of my own. So I have to cancel my plans to help her. I don’t mind taking my mom to her appointments and other stuff for her health but not with things that involve my sister child when my sister is fully capable of doing it.