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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/RedditScoutBoy on 2023-09-09 16:12:15.
My(28)girlfriend(27) decided to quit her job so she can learn programming. I work a full time job, 4 days wfh 1 at the office. She’s also doing her courses from home, 2 days a week. I pay all the utilities holidays and food, do all the cooking(also washing the mise en place dishing i am using), groceries, vacuuming once a week and help her with the laundry. I expect that she does all the remaining housework during the weekdays and that the house is tidy. She sais i should pay her money if I expect her to do most of the cleaning? AITA?