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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/sleepyhead234 on 2023-09-09 06:08:08.

hi reddit.

my best friend/ex partner and i “broke up” a few days ago. for context, he more or less told me that he doesn’t have feelings for me, and never really did. obviously this was upsetting to me, and we did have a fight over it- but we remained friends. onto tonight’s events- i hooked up with a friend this evening, and mentioned it to my best friend/ex partner, thinking it wouldn’t matter to him considering he has/had no romantic feelings for me at all. evidently i was wrong. he refuses to answer any texts or calls, and is just leaving me on seen. i think it’s utterly insane that he is upset about this, considering he never once complimented me or said he found me attractive in the year and a half we have known each other. im single. we are not together. he literally told me that he doesn’t have feelings for me. but the second i sleep with someone else? now he cares. I need an outside source. am i being insane? is he being unreasonable? am i overdramatic? any response is appreciated, im just so frustrated.