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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/TemporaryLet9379 on 2023-09-07 16:22:16.
Some context about a year ago my upstairs neighbour had a kid and has been waking me up 2-3 times per night . which lead me to change my sleep schedule to sleep 2pm-8pm since she is outside most of that time at work. This leads me being up most of the night which is preferable since the child would keep me up during most of the night and i dont have to work more than 2-4 hours a week anyway. The problem starts cause I usually head out around 4 am to go pick up my girlfriend since she works the night shift from around 8pm to 4 in the morning. My girlfriend doesn’t drive so I go pick her up. Unfortunately I drive a fairly loud motorcycle but ive never considered it a problem since Im only there for a few seconds before I drive off.
Recently my upstairs neighbour has started to complain about the noise levels. I told her that I have offered to previously buy her some earplugs so that she wouldn’t have to be bothered by the sound like i did for my other neighbours. She refused saying she needed to be able to hear her child if they start crying in the morning. I responded that i wouldn’t even be awake at this hour if it wasn’t for her and her child waking me through the night previously and left it at that.