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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Emergency_Working737 on 2023-09-07 05:27:07.
My daughter is 9 and blasian, we live in a pretty diverse area with a good mixture of different ethnicities.
My daughter has been having problems with one specific girl in her class bullying her, my daughter told me that that girl would repeatedly make fun of how she looks and make really nasty remarks towards her regarding her appearance. Ive tried to report this to the school, plan meetings with the teacher and the girl, but when we did have the meeting the mom brushed everything off (i see where the daughter got it from) and the school just gave the kid a verbal warning that did absolutely nothing.
The other day i overheard my daughter crying in her room, she was face timing her “friend” who had that brat over at her house, and over the call the girl started calling my daughter the n word. I comforted my daughter behind the camera but began recording the girl harassing my daughter. I was able to get a 3 minute video and hung up the call, i also decided to look at what she was sending my daughter (this was over roblox) and it was a bunch of censored slurs which i also took screenshots of.
Most of the parents of my daughters class were in a group chat so i decided to individually send all of them the video and screenshots. Well who would’ve known that other black and brown parents wouldn’t want their children around a brat that speaks like a grand wizard and her mother who enables it? A good chunk of the kids in the class began ignoring and distancing themselves from that girl as well as the parents not speaking to her mother. Eventually her mom found out i sent the videos and told me i was bullying a child for being a child and making “innocent mistakes”, even though she knew her kid was an issue and didn’t do anything to discipline her. AITA?