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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Technical_Homework62 on 2023-09-06 20:25:28.


Currently I am a (25F) 7 months pregnant. This pregnancy was unplanned and I found out shortly after separating with my ex (35M). I immediately wanted to consider other options as we both knew our relationship was unhealthy for reasons like (He could NOT get over his ex or getting attention from other women). My ex was completely against any other options and worked hard to convince me we were more than capable of coparenting and could raise our child with each others support. Shortly after the 16 week mark I received a phone call from my ex letting me know he decided to start dating his previous ex (35F) again and he made her aware of my pregnancy. I was very unhappy to find this out not because he was dating but because he was dating a woman who had stalked and harassed me for over half of our 2 year long relationship… To make the situation even worst several weeks later I was informed that SURPRISE they are expecting a child two months after my due date. I have spent my entire pregnancy alone and constantly fighting with my ex over just about everything …I have absolutely no desire to have my child apart of this and would love to take her and disappear to raise her on my own…AITA