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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Ill-Association263 on 2023-09-06 20:29:34.
Basically what the title says. I make around $80k/yr, were both in our 20’s. I already cover more than half of the bills because I make more money. He has been working really hard on his business, has a business plan, etc., but in order to really start generating some revenue he needs more time than he is getting right now with working while he is also building this business. I am pretty sure we could manage with just me paying the bills but I am worried that I would resent him later on because it is a lot of pressure to put on someone and even if I didn’t have to work I probably still would. Also we already keep separate bank accounts - we decided this going into marriage that we would keep our money separated since he is pursuing his own business and it is honestly my preference.