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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Beeezkneeze on 2023-09-05 17:06:33.
I’ve been seeing someone for 1.5 years, we don’t live together.
He’s a nice guy, but lately I’m just not feeling it. It’s morphing into a relationship where I’m mothering too much and pulling more than my fair share of the weight.
I’ve been analyzing our relationship for a while and I’ve decided to break up - but this is where I falter…It’s been so long since I was the one doing the breaking up and I am out of practice. This is also my first break up since online dating blew up (I’m oooooold) and I know the world has changed.
Do I schedule a hang out and do it at mine? Best over the phone? I want to end things respectfully and also give him his things back. Do I give him my honest reasons for falling out of love or just say it’s not working for me and keep it vague? Does that honesty help or no?
Advice please ladies, thanks so much.