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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Nooryco on 2023-09-04 20:57:03.
My older sister has a newborn (3 months old) baby. Her husband refuses the idea that she put the baby in childcare in fears of a mistreatment.
Her husband’s sisters refused to take care of the baby so now she wants me to nanny her baby while she’s at work since I’m not working at the moment and live with my parents. She also offered to pay me.
I have to prepare for my exam this month so I told her that I can’t nanny her baby every day and I’m scared to take care of a newborn baby because it’s a big responsibility and I don’t have experience with infants. She did not take this well.
She screamed at me this morning when she brought her baby because I asked her if she’d find a daycare. I am so shocked of the words came out of her mouth. She told me that I do not care about her baby and that she doesn’t trust strangers to take care of her baby. When she came from work she took her baby and left the house without saying any words to me. I found out that she blocked me. Now I feel super guilty about it and don’t know how to approach her, I need some advice.