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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Upbeat_Ad1162 on 2023-09-04 18:29:40.

So last weekend, I went out with this guy I matched on Bumble. We matched some three weeks back. Spent a good three weeks speaking to each other and then I met him.

Prior to this, we matched on Hinge around 6 months back, but that conversation fizzled out pretty soon.

We matched recently on Bumble and we moved the conversation to Instagram and WhatsApp. Initially, it was sporadic as well. But eventually, we started talking on a daily basis and he seemed fun.

We met on Friday and I had a really good time with him while drinking. But, after the third drink, I don’t remember how I went to his place.

All I remember is feeling extremely drunk and him holding me. I remember him kissing me a few times while we were drinking. But those were just few pecks on the lip, that’s it.

I remember getting in the cab with him, and then I remember us having sex, but legit in just bits and pieces. I woke up next morning, covered in bruises, and I asked him if he used condoms, he said yes.

I come back home and I realise I have left my watch at his place, so I text him on WhatsApp, to realise that he has blocked me from both Instagram and WhatsApp.

Later during the weekend, more memories start coming back to me. I had a lot of pain on my chest. And that happened from him pressing me down during sex. From chest down, I have big purple bruises and bite marks on my breasts, inner thighs, inner arms and legs.

Since I don’t fully remember the act of us having sex, so I was trying to recall. My right cheek was stinging a little as I touched it. And I guess that triggered the memory of him slapping me quite hard around 5-6 times during sex. My head hurts from touching probably because it got banged a few times on the headboard, there are cuts inside my lips, and my neck hurts from being choked too hard.

I don’t remember much from that night to be honest. But now I am confused if I got sexually assaulted or not. I remember clearly having no conversation with him regarding the slapping bit and choking as well. I don’t recall having such violent sex.

I have a good capacity when it comes to drinking and the chances of being close to blackout drunk from three drinks.

I guess I am drawing a blank here and the whole incident has left me feeling very fucking confused.