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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Ladybug0308 on 2023-09-04 02:58:45.
I have three kids and am currently pregnant with my fourth. I left work to take care of our kids. My husband thinks that because I don’t work outside the house it’s my responsibility to take care of ALL duties related to the house and kids. You name it- cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, homework, school activities, drop offs, etc. On top of everything I do, he also expects me to make all of his meals- breakfast lunch and dinner. I am so tired recently from entertaining the kids all day during summer vacation and I’ve been having a hard time with my pregnancy. He told me “life’s tough this is your job” and has no sympathy for me. In fact, he thinks I have it easy because I “don’t work.” The last two nights I’ve refused to make him dinner and he’s acting like I’m a useless ‘horrible’ wife. Why can’t he stop at the store after work and pick himself something up? Or look at what we have in the fridge and make something? When he’s hungry he’ll constantly say “I’m starving, I’m so hungry etc” being passive aggressive to let me know he wants me to make him something. I’m completely undervalued and unappreciated. Am I an asshole for putting my foot down and refusing to wait on him hand and foot?