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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Admirable_Pair_3058 on 2023-09-03 17:57:21.
Apologize for the clickbaity title, not the intention to bury the lead.
My fiancée wanted a destination wedding, she comes from money. I did not care either way I was going to cover my family’s expenses anyway since I do not come from money.
My fiancée would also like to do the same for her family, I said sure she is free to do as she pleases, but I would not help they have the means to cover their expenses, and this destination wedding was 100% your idea.
I am covering half the cost since my parents could not afford to do so. My fiancée is annoyed with me. I spoke with my friend about this and my man told me this is a huge red flag. I know AITA is not afraid to rip a person a new asshole, so AITA? Should I pay for her family’s expenses since I did the same for my family even if they have the means to do so?