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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Such_Cauliflower_758 on 2023-09-02 17:25:05.
She is only 22 and already has 3 kids ages 6, 4, and 2 months. Since she dropped out of high school, the only jobs she can get are minimum wage jobs so she is living off the government. And yet, she keeps having kids. Recently, after her baby was born, I told her that she was wrong, selfish and irresponsible for having another kid. She blocked me on all socials and wouldn’t talk to me. I feel bad for my nieces and nephew because they are being raised in poverty. It’s so sad. Poor kids have to grow up living in a run-down apartment, wear worn out clothes and not getting all of their nutritional needs met due to the extremely tight budget. The oldest is already slightly overweight. IMO, She needed a reality check so she can stop bringing kids into a shitty environment. It’s unfair to them. She can’t even give the kids a decent life and yet keep having them so I wouldn’t be surprised if the kids end up hating her for it. Because if my mom did that shit to me, I could’ve cut ties with her.
The kids are ultimately the victims of her poor decision making. They are suffering because of it.