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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/WimiTheWimp on 2023-09-01 06:43:24.
Hi, I’m 26f. And I really hate open-mouth kissing/making out. It seems super basic but I just don’t like it. I have a boyfriend I love dearly. I love kissing his forehead, cheeks, and even his nose. I like it when he does the same. I don’t mind a peck on the lips, but making out makes me gag. The sensations, the smell (he does not have bad breath, even the scent of him breathing through his nose grosses me out) really bother me most of the time, unless (occasionally) it is in the middle of sex or sometimes before sex. I am also on the autism spectrum, but I am not sure if that’s relevant.
I know if I told him this he’d be upset and see it as a rejection. Well I don’t know that but I have a strong belief he will.
Am I normal? What do I do about this? This issue has even lead me to believe I am not straight because I don’t get butterflies or a spark from making out I just think “ew.”