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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/PM-me-your-fish-pics on 2023-09-01 04:39:01.
Matched with a guy. Looked at his photos more carefully after a few back-and-forth pleasantries. Saw the wedding band, asked him if he’s married, ENM, if it’s old pics, or if he’s cheating. He admitted he’s cheating. His wife is in another country for work, and he’s lonely. I asked him if he’s talked to his wife about this, and he said he never will. I told him I’ll never knowingly help anyone cheat. Open marriage, ENM, poly – no problem. But the lying and manipulation that underpins cheating are just such brutal and fundamental betrayals.
So, if you’re married to a Croatian civil engineer who is living in Toronto, and you are living in the USA and a neuroscientist/cell biologist, PM me your husband’s first name and favourite plant that he grows himself, and I’ll confirm if it’s him.