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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Funny_Ad_1822 on 2023-08-31 20:50:47.
When Covid shut everything down in 2020 I (22 at the time) was really inspired to take online classes with all of my spare time. It’s always been my dream to go to college. This ended up inspiring my boyfriend to do the same.
His parents are pretty rich, so when they found out he was back in school, they offered to pay for him to go back full time so he wouldn’t have to work while going to school. He’s 32 btw and had already gone to college for 2 years and dropped out.
So my boyfriend applied to a school and got in. Since then he’s made us move to the middle of a city ( in the same apartment building as his parents) and it’s a nightmare for me. He also gets mad at me for not being more supportive and he expects me to work full time and clean the house and cook while he goes back to school. His parents pay for all of his bills, but I’m expected to pay for all of my own things (we live together).
He’s also just been really rude since officially starting classes and has started treating me like an idiot even though I’m definitely smarter than him. It also doesn’t help that there’s only 1 other guy in his class so everyday he wants to tell me about all of the girls he’s hanging out with.
Anyways, he keeps telling me that if I support him through this, then he’ll be able to support me in the future with school. I’m not sure if this is even worth it anymore. If I wait until he graduates, I’m going to be 30 going to college for the first time. Should I just give up and do what he wants for the next few years? I don’t have anywhere else to go if we were to break up, so it’s not like I can leave him and just go to school on my own. Any advice helps.