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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Fearless_Mess_3682 on 2023-08-31 15:28:00.
English is not my first language.
I have a 14-year-old daughter with my ex-husband. My ex-husband has custody of the child and I see my daughter once every two weekends. It’s very important to me that I raise my daughter properly, so I’ve assigned her a number of household chores, including washing one meal of the dishes, setting the table for each meal, and helping to clean the house. I think these chores are suitable for a girl at this age, but my daughter is not happy with doing these things at all. We always fight about this.
A few days ago, I talked to my ex-husband and his wife about this and they told me that I am an asshole. I told them that they are spoiling my child and making her an adult who can’t function properly.