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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Torchnugget264 on 2023-08-31 04:51:25.
Three years ago I (M28) met Richy(M27), Richy was not Richy or a man when we met. The girl Richy was before was honestly my dream girl. But now Richy is basically an Alpha Chad. I can’t stand him, I’m not into men sexually. I’ve tried to make our relationship work, we’ve done therapy. He loves and needs me immensely, but he transitioned even knowing my sexuality. I stayed hoping I’d grow to be attracted to a MAN. But its not working. I’m not into him sexually anymore, I’m not into his new personality or way of living.
Before transitioning Richy and I’s nights would mostly involve cuddling, cute movie marathons, binging a series. Maybe casual games on our computers.
But now Richy is always at the gym every day, I never see him before bed. He’ll wake me up when he comes into the house making food. He wakes me up wanting to use his “new member” in intercourse. He’s coerced me to be a bottom, MULTIPLE times and I just DO NOT enjoy it.
He is a man, everything he said he wanted to be. And I hate it. I am trying to leave, I told him.
But he told me I’m a asshole for leaving him and taking his support away. I’ve been the only person here for him through it all, and I’m just done.
So reddit, AITA for leaving my post transiting alpha Chad partner?
Taleya@aussie.zone 1 year ago
NTA.
You’re not into this relationship, it’s done. The trans angle has you caught up worrying you’re an arsehole, but your partner and you have serious problems.
Your needs aren’t being met and they’re pressuring you into sexual acts you don’t want.
Notice how i stripped gender out of that? Because this is what you’re dealing with.