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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/inlawsultrasound on 2023-08-30 16:45:44.
My (21f) fiancee (26m) and I fought this and we want to ask Reddit to judge.
Throwaway, because a few family member knows our main accounts.
I am 18 weeks pregnant with our first baby. In my side of the family, this is the sixth grandkid, while in his it’s the first (he’s an only child, while I’m the third “surprise” kid).
His side is ecstatic even if it’s a little early, my side is not that happy. Especially my sister (38f) who is a divorcee and she thinks I fucked it up, but she supports me no matter what.
About the problem: my future in-laws paid for a special ultrasound appointment as a birthday present for me. I was happy at first because this thing was not cheap, and I wanted to see my baby in this. The problem is that only three people can come, and that would be my fiancee and his parents, no one from my side. The second problem was that I had to wear a hospital gown, so basically, I would lay there in my panties and a pulled-up gown in front of my father-in-law and I’m way too shy to do that. Even the thought of it gives me the ick.
So I asked my fiancee to switch his dad with my sister, but he said that his parents paid for it so they had to be there, and my FIL would only look at the screen, not my panties.
So I decided not to go to the ultrasound and called my future in-laws to cancel it. Unfortunately, there is a cancellation fee (50%) that I offered to pay back.
My in-laws are not angry at me, just a little disappointed, but my fiancee is furious. So AITA?