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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Altruistic_Race8666 on 2023-08-30 13:37:04.
So long story short I (21m) lives with my parents bcs I got job near my house and we have big house so I also get my privacy so I didn’t see any reason to move out now. Recently my cousin Mia (19f) came to live with us for 1-2 year because her parents are going through some issues. We both have good relation we get along nice and we even play outdoor games and also video games so we spend alot of time together. The issue is that she started dressing very immodestly. I know it may sound like I am controlling or something but no she is literally wearing very less clothes. For ex she just wears underwear/panties and oversized teashirt or hoodies and roam are the house or watches tv in living room. Last night she was just wearing a freaking tank top which was mine so it was bigger in size but she said she liked it so i gave it to her, she was just wearing that tank top and I can visibly see her entire left boob and it made me really uncomfortable. After that I straight up told her that she need wear more appropriate clothes around the house which led to an argument that I am trying to be controlling jerk and etc etc. I talked with my mother about this and she said my cousin is going through issue because of her parents seperation and i should cut her some slack. So was I the asshole here?