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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Automatic_Brick2709 on 2023-08-30 04:09:47.
my spouse came out as bi last week. we have been together for ten years, have kids, and I found a ‘toy stash’ in his office.
when I asked about the toys, he said I didn’t fulfill his needs and that I was distant and this broke me. later, he said that was all a cover up for actually being bisexual, and that I couldn’t fulfill “certain” needs.
he said he has not been with anyone else, I believe him, and does not want to be with anyone else.
what hurt was being told I don’t satisfy him.
A FEW DAYS LATER THERES A SINKING FEELING AND YOU ASK TO SCROLL THROUGH HIS PHONE AND HES HESITANT
you’ve just discovered your husband of ten years (and kids) had private message convo with some woman about a “physical rendezvous” and him telling her you gave him a “hall pass” (you didn’t lol). they never met up.
you also discovered your husband of ten years (and kids) sent d!ck pics to women for ‘rate my c0ck’. five of them. they are reddit people (and probably not even women lol)
you also discovered your husband of ten years (and kids) subscribed to some subreddits THE NIGHT he told you he was bi (he said he didn’t know if the relationship was going to work out, but there was not a fight), never met up with anyone, but subscribed to gloryholes, meetups, hookups, you get the idea.
so, never met up with anyone. no physical stuff at all. ten years and children
what do you do? who is this person? he said he’s depressed. stressed at work.
i’m with a stranger.