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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/WavyGravy77 on 2023-08-29 23:39:52.
I’m kinda laughing to myself right now because what the heck. We have only slept together a handful of times, I wasn’t looking for anything serious and neither was he. The last time we were together was the first week in June and we only chatted a few times since then. But I recently met someone I really clicked with and we pretty much asked each other to be in a relationship at the same time. So I went to message my FWB guy and let him know I won’t be seeing him anymore, and wished him well. He responded in saying congrats and that he hoped things worked out. I thanked him and thought that would be the end of the convo. But then he started saying how this always happens to him, how it’s a curse, how he just had to say goodbye to like 3 girls last week, but ended it by saying all the people that leave him end up in long term relationships so he said I shouldn’t have any issues. He basically said he’s the real life “Good Luck Chuck.” I was starting to get uncomfortable, replied with a short message about finding the right person. He then said that he’s not looking for anything cause the what he wants “doesn’t exist” and that “people are interested in being with literally anyone who gives them attention and most relationships will fail or are miserable for the rest of their lives.” So I was like wow this dude just got real bitter real quick, told him to just live his life and the right person will come along when the time is right. Then he’s like not necessarily cause there’s not a whole lot of room for other people. I just didn’t reply cause he’s clearly got a pity party going on that I don’t want to be invited to.
Like we weren’t even close, we had hardly anything in common, we barely talked and now he’s giving me this woe is me monologue cause I found someone and he didn’t. And he’s trying to make me feel bad for him? For what?! He wasn’t interested in a relationship with me, and I wasn’t interested in one with him. Like what do these kinds of men think they are going to accomplish by being whiners? It’s embarrassing.