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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/moonjelly33 on 2023-08-29 23:08:15.

Every single day another 50 posts like:

“My husband never cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, or otherwise contributes to my life in any way. He only wants to spend time with me if I am actively blowing him. Am I wrong for being upset?”

“The guy I’m dating keeps pressuring me to send nudes. He says if I don’t have sex with him, he’ll kill himself. If I say no, am I a bitch?”

“My boyfriend ignored my birthday and spent it gaming with his friends. I begged him to get me a $5 Walmart cake, sent him the link to order it, offered to pay for it myself, all he had to do was pick it up. He didn’t. Am I the problem?”

“I gained 0.2 pounds during pregnancy and now my husband says I’m disgusting and wants to open the relationship. Am I wrong?”

“I asked my boyfriend if he would please maybe consider saying something nice to me once every 3 months, but only if he’s not busy. He says I’m being a needy bitch. Am I wrong?”

“I told the guy I’m dating that I am on my period. He says I’m disgusting. Am I wrong?”

“I cook all meals for my boyfriend because if I didn’t, he would eat nothing but chicken nuggets. Last night I cooked him a 5-course meal and he had a temper tantrum and threw it on the floor because there was 1 molecule of broccoli. Am I wrong?”

Stop putting up with this. Stop allowing this behavior from them. I don’t care if this sounds like victim blaming. I know abuse twists your mind; I know how gaslighting works; I know. That’s why I am telling you: IF IT REGULARLY MAKES YOU FEEL UPSET OR UNLOVED, IF YOUR GUT IS TELLING YOU SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT, IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THE INTERNET IF IT’S BAD, IT DOES NOT MATTER IF THERE ARE GOOD PARTS. LEAVE. If you would not accept this from a sister or female friend, DO NOT accept it from a man. Leave him. It will NEVER get better. He does not see you as a human being. You are a combination cleaning robot and fuck toy. LEAVE.

Edit to add: It is better to be a bitch than dead or dead inside. Embrace being a bitch. It can save you.