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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Similar_Season_4496 on 2023-08-29 12:13:47.
My dad has alzheimer’s and is he being cared for at home by my mom, my younger sister and I and my half siblings. My half siblings are 30m and 28f and my sister and I are 20m and 18f.
My dad was married to my half siblings mom when she died. They were 4 and 6 at the time. He married my mom 3 years later.
For the last 8-10 months my dad has forgotten all about mom, my sister and I. He keeps talking about his first wife and my half siblings. It has been so tough.
My half siblings are loving it. They have rubbed our noses in the fact dad talks so much about their mom and how he remembers everything before she got sick. They said dad moving his original wedding ring to his other hand but wearing it alongside the ring from his marriage to mom and this shows who he really loved. They also said dad was writing letters to their mom every year since her death and showed us some.
It broke my mom because she loves my half siblings and they found so much joy in taunting her.
I lost it the other day when some of dad’s family were visiting and my half siblings were smirking at us over all the talk of their mom. I told them they were disgusting if they found this so funny and how could they hate my mom so much to rub it in like they are. They said I was behaving like a brat and they are allowed to be glad dad loves their mom.
AITA?