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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Cultural_Box_173 on 2023-08-29 15:12:01.
I (F33) live with my husband and our daughter (F10).
I have a brother (M29) who has two sons (M7 and M6). My brother and nephews recently moved in with us as they were about to become homeless. My brother is a single dad and his ex isn’t in the picture.
The weather is a bit warmer out and my brother has been letting his sons wander around the house or even run in the backyard fully naked. My brother makes comments like “those crazy kids will do what they want I guess”. I talked to my brother and I told him that this isn’t appropriate in our house and they need to wear clothes, and that they’re too old for this.
My brother got annoyed and said that they’re just being kids, and said it’s unfair for me to treat them like adults, and even said that I’m the one being inappropriate. He then went and talked to my husband “man to man”, where my husband essentially told him “our house, our rules” and that we aren’t budging on the issue.
My nephews now wear clothes around the house but my brother is now avoiding speaking to me and is very abrupt, he’s clearly still upset about this. He hasnt been this annoyed with me in a long time so I need some third party opinions as I’m feeling unsure of my own stance now.