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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/onceuponasea on 2023-08-29 15:47:29.

The title says it all. I’m curious if other people have had the same experience where it feels like the guy isn’t all there during sex. It’s almost like he’s just going off a porn script and it generally feels like he’s not even present. And trust me I have communicated this but it doesn’t change anything.

I have extreme body dysmorphia so it’s hard not to take it personally sometimes. It feels insulting because it just feels like I’m a masturbatory tool for them instead of a human.

Also, why do men insist that jackhammering me is going to make me cum? If anything it just hurts. Most of the time they will stop if I tell them but then 5 minutes later they’re back to the same old jack hammer move.

I’m feeling less and less attracted to men and it’s honestly depressing because I love men and want a relationship with them. But at this point it just feels like a fantasy in my mind that will never come to fruition.

Anyone else feel similar?