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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/LolliRox12 on 2023-08-29 00:57:44.
I don’t want to divulge and tell my life story and I’ll do my best to get to the point. I turned 30 this year and have not had any long term relationship with a man, longest was probably 10 months. My last relationship ended last November and I just noticed how my attraction for the last guy I dated to just wain so quickly, I realized like within 1-2 months dating him that I didn’t really want to be with him anymore, but I just thought that’s how it goes. It’s been now almost a year since that previous relationship ended and I’ve had flings with other men but didn’t quite enjoy it. I just don’t find them attractive anymore and sometimes I wonder if I even found men attractive or maybe I was just being codependent. I have lots of trauma and experienced abuse from my dad as a kid, so I’ve never seen a good example of a man and a healthy relationship. I’m also not attracted to women either. The thought of dating again makes me nauseous and so I just avoid it all together. Now a days I don’t think too much about it and just live my life. Days like today thought it got me thinking what’s going on with me, and that this isn’t normal maybe? I just don’t want a man touching me, messing with my emotions, disturbing my peace, and fucking with my finances and everything I works so hard for. So
Am I the exception here or is this becoming more common?