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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/YeetMeIntoTheVoid91 on 2023-08-28 22:41:40.
I was in my bi-monthly therapy appt this last week and my therapist was proud of me for “enforcing boundaries” and drawing lines in the sand regarding my marriage. But it shocked me because I thought for sure she was going to say I was being an abusive asshole. I was absolutely honest in what I said or did and tone.
I have been setting my foot down on how much emotional/mental labor I have to do in this marriage. A part on the car was acting up and he looked at me and asked me to look it up and I just stared at him and asked him why he couldn’t look it up himself on the phone that was IN HIS HAND. And that I shouldn’t have to be involved in everything that happens. Don’t tell me about it, just DO IT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, PLEASEJUST DO SOMETHING.
You all were so supportive of my last post and I truly appreciated it. I am trying to make things good for now, but I know in my heart of hearts that the bottom will drop out again and when it does, I have a plan. Have I been doing everything I need to at home? No. But am I doing what I can when I can between working full time, volunteering, and finishing my degree? yes.
Maybe this is adding into the post that doesn’t need to be there but… Can you truly trust someone who continuously lets you down? As I type this, I’m getting a phone call from the Master’s Program I am applying to soon. I have a future. I don’t know what it looks like, but mine is bright regardless.