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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/yellowcrayon3 on 2023-08-28 19:04:57.
I joined tinder yesterday. I have used it before in the past. Never met anybody long term from it but I have had a few short term relationships and flings. I have never in my years of dating (29f) dealt with a man like this. We were supposed to hang out in the evening but he kept delaying and finally came to my house at 1am. We were supposed to go out for drinks but instead he decided he wanted to smoke weed and pulled over and parked near a church. I’m currently not smoking and he knew that so this was weird. He proceeded to tell me he took some shrooms because its his birthday. His whole energy was creepy and strange and I regretted getting in the car. We were a few minutes into the conversation and he tries to kiss me. But there was no vibe no attraction… The whole thing was weird… So I tried to steer it back to conversation. He then started to YELL at me that he drove all the way here and I was not giving him any (sex). He said people meet up on tinder for only sex and especially because it’s late at night I am supposed to have sex with him. He then told me I was ugly and no one wants me. He decided because I would not fuck him that I needed to get out of the car. I did, we were parked in front of a church so I was in a safe place. I called an Uber and got home safely. As he was driving away he stopped multiple times to curse me out and ‘curse my whole bloodline’. This guy is Bengali btw I think the shrooms convinced he was Jamaican because I heard a fake accent. Lmao. I’m still in shock. I deleted the whole app and I’m afraid. I have PTSD from abusive parents so this just triggered a whole lot of issues of not feeling safe for me. What is wrong with people??